Exclusively for City, State & Federal Professionals
Romance built on trust,
for those who do the most
Discreet. Secure. Intentional.
A dating app for
people who take their life
& their romance seriously
What began as a personal frustration turned into a platform built for people who value transparency, safety, and connection, without the awkwardness.
As seen in The New York Post
As seen in The New York Post
As seen in The New York Post
As seen in The New York Post
As seen in The New York Post
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The duo wanted to offer users the opportunity to date someone who also has an unpredictable work schedule, as well as a profession that can also take its toll emotionally.
Getting started is simple, secure, and private
Create your profile, verify your identity and profession once, and begin matching with verified members.
Find us in the App Store
& download to get started
No upfront commitment required,
just a secure entry point into a verified
dating experience built with privacy in mind.
Create and customize your profile
Choose what you share and how you’re seen. From profession to preferences, your profile is built to reflect your world — thoughtfully and discreetly.
Bank-level verification
Secure uses Plaid’s industry-standard verification system to validate members before they connect. The same level of screening trusted by leading financial institutions — applied to dating.
Where verified professionals connect
Every match on Secure is identity-confirmed and screened before going live. When you begin matching, you’re meeting people who value privacy and intention as much as you do.
Dating, but verified.
By choosing Secure,
we’re making a promise to our users that
we’ll always prioritize their well-being and security.
Your privacy.
Your rules.
Because mystery is attractive.
And safety is non-negotiable.
Our application is screenshot proof.
What happens here stays here. Profiles can’t be screenshotted or recorded, because your face, job, and info aren’t content.
See who you want,
But verified
Filter for the people you actually want to meet —
city professionals, serious intent, real identities.
Better matches. Less noise.
Date without all of the exposure
No public profiles. No searchable accounts. Just a controlled environment designed for high-visibility careers and real discretion.
Your time is protected
Conversations are limited by design.
Once you reach a message threshold, access closes.
Your inbox stays intentional, not overwhelming.
Secure
is powered by Plaid —
the same trusted platform used
by brands you know
We keep nothing –
Approved or disapproved,
your data is deleted after 7 days.
Designed for the hardest-working individuals seeking love amidst the chaos.
Professions
we accept
Each category reflects roles that require accountability and a great level of responsibility.
- NYPD (New York City Police Department)
- Nassau County Police Department
- Suffolk County Police Department
- MTA Police
- New York State Police (NYSP)
- Port Authority Police Department (PAPD)
- New York City Sheriff’s Office
- NYC Department of Investigation (DOI)
- Court Officers (NYS Unified Court System)
- New York State Park Police
- Environmental Conservation Police Officers
- Probation Officers (NYC & NYS)
- Parole Officers (NYS DOCCS, Federal)
- TSA Agents (Transportation Security Administration)
- Federal Agents (FBI, DEA, ATF, Secret Service, DHS, ICE, CBP, TSA, etc.)
- U.S. Marshals Service
- Correction Officers (NYC DOC, NYS DOCCS, Federal Bureau of Prisons)
- 911 Dispatch / Communications
Meet
Lee & Terrance
From life on the frontlines,
they designed Secure to make dating simple, authentic
and meaningful for busy professionals like themselves.
Let's connect
off the app
It’s where we share what’s happening, and what’s coming next.
“Being a cop is apart of who I am. The green flag is somebody that’s not even an issue.”
NYPD DETECTIVE
“Most people look at a detective cop as very straightforward, stern individual, but I like to have fun, too!”
NYPD DETECTIVE
“It’s just part of dating a first responder. Like, it’s cool. She respects what I do. ”
NYPD FIREFIGHTER
without the uncertainty
Know who you’re meeting.
Control what you share.
Connect with verified people who value
privacy as much as you do.
Connect
Connecting hardworking individuals
in a secure, trustworthy dating platform.
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